1. You always visit your man's house
during late hours of the night. Visiting
your man's house is not bad. But
visiting your man's house during the
late hours of the night increases the
risk that he may ask you to sleep over
in his house. And when that happens,
you may not have the nerves to say no
if he insists. The best thing to do is,
don't visit your man's house during
the late hours of the night. Go to his
house when you can comfortably see
him and go back to your house without
sleeping over in his house. 2. You
always sleep alone with your man.
When two young people of the
opposite sex sleep alone on the same
bed, there is going to be a spark of
chemistry among them especially if
they have feelings for each other. You
are not a firewood. So don't give the
devil an opportunity to tempt you.
Don't sleep alone with your boyfriend
in the same bed unless there is no
other place you can sleep when you go
to his house and the need arises for
you to sleep over. Make sure you can
trust his spiritual maturity and moral
standard with proofs before both of
you can sleep together. 3. You always
center your discussion with him around
sex. When you are with your man and
all your discussion centers around sex,
he will not fail to ask you for sex now
or later. Let your communication with
him be healthy and reasonable any
time you are alone with your man.
Remember that there is a spirit behind
every spoken word. When you feed
each other with lustful words, you are
injecting the Spirit of Lust into each
other and the end product of the so
called romantic talk will be asking for
sex verbally or by touching. Be wise.
4. Because you make yourself his wife
before marriage. If you assume the
role of a wife to a man who has not
paid your bride price, nothing stops
that man from asking you for sex. He
doesn't even know the road that leads
to your father's house, yet you cook
his meals, wash all his clothes and
even his underwears. What else
remains for you to become a full
house wife? There is nothing wrong in
doing those things for a man you love
but it must begin when he has legally
married you and brought you into his
house. 5. Because you cohabit with a
man who has not paid your bride
price. When you pack your belongings
and run into a man's house to live with
him when the man has not paid your
bride price, you have given the man a
license to ask you for sex. Don't
cohabit with your man, live in your
parents house until you are legally
married. And if you don't have parents
to live with, go live in your church or
with your sister in Christ. It is better
than living together with a man who
has not paid any dime on your head.
6. Because you allow him to kiss you
too much and touch you anyhow he
likes. As a relationship Expert and
marriage counselor, I have seen some
foolish things many Singles do. Some
ladies will tell you, "Pastor, we didn't
have sex, we only had romance". What
is different from sex and romance? If
the guy has seen all your breasts,
fumbled, squeezed and sucked them as
if his mother starved him of breakmilk
when he was a baby, what will stop
him from asking you for sexual
intercourse since you have already
opened your treasure for him. If you
don't want your man to ask you for
sex before marriage, please keep all
the kissing, petting, romance and sex
till your wedding night. 6. Because you
easily break your firewall and fall
blindly for love. Ib you are easily
swept off your feet any time you hear,
" I love you baby" from a guy, it will
become very easy for men to ask you
for sex before marriage. You don't
need to play hard to get for any man.
You don't need to be rude or arrogant.
But you must have high self esteem
and respect for your feminine
fecundity. Any man who comes around
you must notice from the way you
dress, walk, talk and do things that
you are not the kind of woman any
man can flatter easily in the name of
love. You should believe in love, but
you should not fall for blind and stupid
love. 7. If you are a party girl who
loves to drink alcohol, dance seductive
dance and flirt around with men, you
will not fail to see any man who comes
on your way for relationship asking
you for sex. Because by their fruit we
shall know them. Don't make guys take
you to be a bad girl when you are not.
Even as a man, I don't drink alcohol.
Why then will a woman like you finish
five bottles of Gulder, Stout, or Star in spaghetti strap casual wedding outfits
the presence of your boyfriend and
expect Him not to ask you for sex
when you get home? If you make your
boyfriend to believe that you are a bad
girl, he will ask you to do what a bad
girl does with her body. Be wise.
Change your attitude. Be a good girl
and you will not be a victim of fake
love centered on sex. Receive grace to
position yourself well for marriage.
God bless you.